I have had on my to-do list for several months “write blog post.” As fantastic as it is to have graduated on a Friday and started a full time job the following Monday, I have yet to re-acclimate myself to that whole work/life balance thing. Heck, Throatpuncher even gave me the book Thrive by Arianna Huffington that spells out the importance of that balance, but I have yet to get to the end of the book.
That isn’t to say I spend all my time at work and sleeping, I know I waste time staring at my cell phone when I could be reading books, magazines, calling friends to catch up, practicing my banjo, etc. Which, as I reviewed my 15 for ’15 list I realized most of my resolutions would be the same for 2016. I may have also realized that I did not do so well on the resolutions in 2015.
Here’s the old List and how I did:
- Win the Daily Step Challenge (Most Days): Check! Well, at least I was 1 for 1 going into the resolutions.
- Blog more, at least once a week: Well, considering my last post was something like 5 months ago, I’m going to call this a fail.
- Share the blog: That one I accomplished immediately…so, current score is 2 to 1. Still not bad.
- Limit Facebook time to none-ish. Nope. All tied up again.
- Look at the bucket list I made when I was 21 and do some of the things: I think I found the list…Pretty sure I did none of the things.
- Work on my non-confrontational nature: Uhhh, well, nope.
- Put myself/my goals first: This is another constant struggle. I am learning from my superiors at work that I need to do this more. Somehow with all of my work hours I have let working out go to the wayside. The executives I support manage to workout almost daily. They make it a priority, and I’ve been making completing their expense reports my priority. Not cool man.
- Phone Curfew: I don’t do this, I forgot about this one even. This is going back on the list.
- Write down a couple lines about what happened with my day: I do this most days, but often I fill in several days all at once. I’m calling this a win, but also a work in progress.
- Complete what I can in the “Story of My Life” book: Yeah, haven’t put one thing in there. Still want to do that.
- Practice my banjo, learn 2 new songs that people know: Haven’t picked up the banjo in months, definitely haven’t learned any new songs.
- Refine and build my friendships: If anything I have done the opposite here. Throatpuncher went through some stuff and I was too busy doing God knows what to be the helpful, supportive friend I have been for her in the past. I haven’t seen DangerMom in months. I certainly didn’t reconnect with the old friends as I had intended in the original resolution. Except for one who reached out to me, so I don’t know if that counts. I am glad she’s back, and will have to think up a nickname for her.
- Read more books/magazines…less internet: Well, judging by the stack of unfinished books and unread magazines I’m looking at across the room from where I currently sit, this one is also a fail.
- Get my assignments done at least a week early: This one I actually did for the most part. Made for a less stressful final semester in college. I highly recommend getting stuff done early.
- Live more fearlessly: I think I did this a little bit. There were some things I did that would definitely not be considered within my comfort zone. Still something I would consider a work in progress. But, probably something that should always be a work in progress.
My list for 2016 will look a lot like this one. I have two conflicting quotes running through my head:
If at first you don’t succeed, try try again. – William Edward Hickson (according to Wikipedia)
Try not. Do or do not. There is no try. – Yoda
I think this is one of those rare times where I disagree with Yoda. Gotta keep trying until I get it right. Sorry Yoda, otherwise you the man. Little, green, man-like creature with cool ears.
Once I decide on exactly what my 16 for ’16 will be I’ll write about it here. Might have to make a call to Cakethrower to see what she’s come up with. Her lists always make me think of a couple of my own.